Sex Basics

You need to learn to walk before you can learn to run. There is no shame in admitting what you don't know ... only shame in not bothering to try and find out. Well now there is really no excuse - here is everything you needed to know, but were afraid to ask. Start here and then explore other areas of the site to refine and develop your knowledge. For those who think they already know it all - check this out, you might be amazed at your knowledge gaps, plus the myths and misinformation you have picked up over the years! Anal Intercourse Experimentation requires communication, consideration, lubrication & good hygiene... Not for everyone, but loved by many who advocate it. Foreplay Every great 'play' - whether in sport, music or sex - begins with a careful & sustained build-up to reach that peak of performance. Consider this... Her First Time When is the right time for the 1st time? How to prepare (mentally & physically - including protection), what to expect & the importance of good communication. His First Time Ignore the peer pressure; the 1st time should be in your own time. When ready here's what to expect, how to prepare & the importance of proper protection. Kissing Not only romantic, but very sexy if done right! Here are lots of techniques to keep your partner desparate to pucker up for more! Mmmmmmmmm... Safe Sex Always practice STD & pregnancy prevention; it is the responsibility of all involved. It's the best tool to make sex fun, positive & safe. Vaginal Intercourse Wondering what the fuss is all about, what sex entails & how to go about making it a success to remember? Here are some of the answers...

Vaginal Intercourse

Vaginal intercourse is more commonly known as sex or coitus in Latin. It is the act of inserting the penis into the vagina, and is one of the most pleasurable experiences that two people can share. This article only covers the basics in what you need to know, make sure to visit the rest of the site for more advanced techniques.

First Time

The first time having sexual intercourse, for many people, is never what they expect. It is never as fulfilling or beautiful as fantasized about or seen in media. Your first time can be a very intimate experience if taken slowly, but do not expect it to be the best sex you will ever have. For women, their first couple of times will be painful and the man needs to take extra special care in going slow and listening to her needs. From the other point of view, many men suffer from a performance anxiety their first time as a result of all this pressure to knock her boots off. If this happens, return back to foreplay, do not let it bother or stop you as it is natural. When the time is right, everything will happen, so be supportive of each other.

First time sexual encounters are usually fumbling, learning experiences, where both people are just starting to understand their partners body and how to make that person satisfied sexually. For more detailed information on your first time, make sure to check out the first time for her and first time for him articles.

Movement

Sex is all about trying to stimulate the sensitive areas of the vagina and penis, how you move should depend on your preferences and the position. Some people enjoy slowly rocking together, others enjoy quick shallow strokes, and yet others love nothing more then the sensation of deep penetration. There is no right or wrong way, as long as both people are enjoying the experience.

A common misconception is that thrusting faster means better sex. Although most people enjoy going really hard right before climax, this point must be reached before the approach feels good. You should always try new things, keep mixing it up by varying your speed and the depth as you build towards climax.

Finding the rhythm may take some time, as will getting your abs, legs, arms and back into shape. Though most positions don’t require a great deal of strength, they all require endurance, so strengthening your muscles is a good place to start.

Positions

Please refer to the sex positions sections for ideas and details.

Safe Sex

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Kissing

Kissing is a delicate art and must be taken slowly with a new partner. It can be part of foreplay/sex - or simply an incredibly enjoyable act of romance and intimacy in its own right.

A good kisser knows how to pace themselves, has an active imagination, and understands what their partner likes or may not expect, but will enjoy. When kissing, remember the following: never slobber (though moistened lips are fine and helpful), don't stare and always pay attention with your non-visual senses (touch, hearing, etc.). Also, there is no such thing as 'too slow'.

If you are unhappy with a kiss then chances are your partner is going to feel the same way. The best thing you can do is relax, and not just in your body, but your face, lips, neck, everywhere. Be relaxed and confident with how you kiss. Let yourself go with the flow of the moment and savour every second of it.

While you are kissing, remember to use your hands, nose, and breath to entice your partner's senses. Everyone enjoys being touched anbd caressed while being kissed. Use your hands to gently caress the cheek, the jawbone, the back, arms, and collarbone. A gentle exhalation of air (remember that good mouth hygiene is important), can provide your partner with extremely light, warm feelings on their face, mouth and neck that are quite arousing.

Never "attack" someone when you kiss them, unless they like that sort of thing - and most people don't. Treat their lips like you would a dangerous creature. Move in slow and prepare for the kiss. Initial contact should be lips only, firm, yet gentle. React to how your partner is kissing. If they speed up, speed up with them. If they slow down, follow suit. Try to synchronize your actions with one another and always pay attention to their body language.

The following is a list of some simple techniques to spice up a kiss:

French Kiss

Usually romantic or sexual in nature (so not usual for a 'first date', in which one person's tongue touches the other's tongue and usually enters his or her mouth.

Triumverat

Kiss between the eyes, on the tip of the nose, and then on the lips.

Top and Bottom

Kiss the top lip, then the bottom lip, then both.

Lickable Lips

Run the tip of your tongue along your partner's lips.

Earlobecstacy

Gently kiss, nibble, and suck on the earlobe.

Facial Lines

Trace the neck and jawbone with your lips and tongue.

The Big Tease

Kiss everywhere but the lips, until your partner pulls you to their lips.

Caressed Lips

Rub your finger gently across their lips and then go in for a kiss.

Sensuality

Look in their eyes and whisper you want to kiss them. Press your lips gently to theirs', caress their lips with yours and then give her/him a passionate kiss.

Cheeky

Gently brush cheeks with your partner.

Eskimo Kiss

Gently rub the tips of your noses together.

Butterfly

Brush eyelashes with your partner. Make a fluttering motion of the eyelash by quickly opening and closing the eye.

Rose Petals

Make a small "O" with your lips. Press your lips against your partner's skin and suck softly. Lift your lips off a little, move over slightly, and repeat.

Hostage Kiss

Cover your lips with tape and get your partner's attention. When they come near, make noises like you're trying to tell them something and motion as if you can't get the tape off. Once they remove the tape from you to hear what you're trying to say, tell them, "I've been saving my lips all day just for you!" Then kiss them passionately.

Strawberry Secret

Place a strawberry in your mouth without your partner knowing. Crush the strawberry in your mouth and feed some to your partner while you kiss.

Cold as Ice

Put a piece of ice in your mouth without your partner knowing. Kiss them on the neck and let the ice softly touch their skin.

Back Kisses

Snuggle up behind your partner and proceed to cover their back with little kisses.

Foot Kisses

When your lover comes home from work, or wherever, wash their feet and give them a massage. While you're giving them the massage, lean over and give little kisses on their feet.

Hershey's Kiss

Try not to kiss your partner all day. Throughout the day leave Hershey's kisses or some sort of romantic candy in places that they will know it's for them. Later in the day start leaving notes with poetry or quotes on kissing for them. After that, leave a love letter describing how you'd like to kiss them and the satisfaction that it would bring you. Once you feel they've had enough teasing, spend sometime rewarding them with lots of kissing! This is rewarding for yourself as well, since you've been thinking about kissing them all day too.

Red Light Kiss

When in the car with your partner, every time you stop at a red light, lean over and kiss them until the light goes green.

Recorded Kiss

Record the sound of yourself blowing a kiss. Then either e-mail it to your partner or leave a note somewhere with instructions to press play.

Video Kiss

Record on a videotape or web cam yourself blowing kisses to your partner and tell them how much you miss them.

E-mail Kiss

Draw or animate a pair of lips kissing. Then send it to your sweetheart.

The Lost Kiss

Look around your partner, looking under things and appearing like you're searching for something. When asked what you're looking for, say "I've been looking for a kiss all day but I can't find one anywhere. Oh wait, I found it." Then give your partner a kiss.

Wake Up Kiss

Before your partner awakes, lean over and kiss their cheek. Then give soft kisses across their cheek until you reach their lips.

Make Up Kisses

At the end of the day, sit down with your partner and ask them how his/her day went. Silently keep track of all the bad things that happened during the day. When he/she is finished, give them a kiss for each one. When asked what you are doing, say you are helping make up for all those bad things.

Post-It Kiss

Make a post-it note trail that leads to your lips. On each note leave a lipstick kiss and an arrow or clue to find the next note. Place the last note over or near your lips.

Full Body Meltdown

While your partner is laying down, slip over to them and start running your tongue, very gently, up their leg, arms, reaching their lips give them a full passionate kiss.

The Grandious Tease

Softly run your fingers across your partner's lips, lure them in to kissing you, but before you kiss, pull away and then go in for the kiss, then pull away again, etc., etc.

Conclusion

So now you know how to 'kiss with a difference', all you need to do is go try it out. Remember, a badly executed kiss is a real turn-off, but a great kiss is memorable and can be totally seductive...

His First Time

Most men are naturally a bit afraid of their first time having sexual intercourse. Will I enjoy it? Will I satisfy her? Is she the right one? Will I be able to get it up? These are all questions that many men think about before their first time. The truth is that your first few times having sex may not be remembered as your best sex ever. Most men agree that the first time is often fast and very clumsy.

Being Ready

The first thing to consider is the person you are with. You want your first time to be with someone you really care for and that really cares for you in return. Since sex will most likely be not that great the first few times, the person you are with is what you’ll want to remember. Many men often rush into sex before they are ready because their friends are doing it and they are ashamed of being virgins. This should not be your reason, there is no correct amount of time to wait; you just want to make sure that you will not regret the decision later.

A few questions you can ask yourself are: Do I trust my partner with my life? Can I see myself having a long relationship with this person? Is she or anyone else pressuring me? Is having sex for me, or for someone else?

Although everyone has anxieties, if you don’t feel you are completely ready, wait. If the gal you are with really cares for you enough, she will understand that this is a big decision, and you don’t want to rush it.

Tips

1. Choose a place where you feel safe and comfortable, your bedroom may be the best place.

2. Choose a secure time when roommates / parents / friends won't come barging in.

3. Gain some experience ahead of time. You want to have explored foreplay for quite awhile before you take the plunge. Having a good understanding of how both your bodies work, as well as having played together, will take away much of the tension. Make sure that you feel 100% comfortable in the nude with the lights on, as having sex will be much more intimate then looking at each other.

4. Communication is the most important thing in a sexual relationship. Make sure to talk about doing it ahead of time to make sure that you are both thinking the same thing. Getting the topic out in the open allows you to become more comfortable with it.

5. Feel free to say stop when ever you want, whether you haven’t started, are starting, or are well under way. It may be because you are getting cold feet, or something about the situation feels wrong, the reason can be whatever you want, just make sure the person you are with will respect your wishes.

6. If you have erection difficulties, or ejaculate prematurely - something that often happens the first few times - stay positive. Don’t stress it, since stressing it will only cause it to happen again and again. Try to relax. If your erection comes back, it does, and if it doesn’t, it doesn’t. You can try later that day, the next day, next week, or whenever you want, so don’t get yourself down. If you have chosen a good partner, she will understand this and try to help you out with some manual or oral stimulation.

7. Just like men sometimes have erection problems from anxiety, women may have trouble getting wet (known as Excessive Dryness). Be patient and do everything that you would expect her to do if you had the male version of the problem. The problem can be solved to some degree using a water-based lubricant like K-Y Jelly. You can find it and many other lubricants in our online store.

8. Be sure you are both open enough to talk about the experience afterwards, even if not right away. Whether it was as hot as a Spanish soap opera, or as embarrassing as a skit from American Pie, be sure to talk about it. If you can’t talk afterwards, then you are simply not ready to move to this level. Communication is the key!

9. The most important thing you need to know is to enjoy safe sex by using protection. Whether it be to protect your partner from pregnancy, or to prevent contracting STDs, you want to protect yourself to the fullest extent. Until you have been with your partner to get checked for STDs, and you are on other birth control, there is no excuse for not using protection. Although condoms may not always be that pleasant, they are much better then contracting something like genital warts. You can buy condoms at most pharmacies, or order them online from our online store.

10. We shouldn’t have to say this, but we will mention it anyway. Do not go bragging to others about what happened. Sex is something you share with your partner, and there will usually be privacy expectations. It can be a major event in your life, one that you’d love to share with a friend or two, but find out what your partner’s wishes are first, and respect them.

Remember, this experience should be an extremely special and intimate time for both partners. Good luck, and remember that the best sex happens with people you care greatly about.

Her First Time

Most women are naturally a bit afraid of their first time having sex. Will I enjoy it? Will it hurt? Will I satisfy my man? Is he the right one? These are all questions that most women think about before their first time. The truth is that your first few times having sex will not be remembered as your best sex ever. Most women agree that the first time often hurts a little, is uncomfortable, and is often very clumsy. Once you get passed the first few times, you will start enjoying all the pleasures that this type of intimacy has to offer.

Being Ready

The first thing to consider is the person you are with. You want your first time to be with someone you really care for and that really cares for you in return. Since sex will most likely be not that great the first few times, the person you are with is what you’ll want to remember. Many women often rush into sex before they are ready because their friends are doing it or because their boyfriend is expecting it. Neither of these should be a part of your reason, there is no correct amount of time to wait; you just want to make sure that you will not regret the decision later.

A few questions you can ask yourself are: Do I trust my partner with my life? Can I see myself having a long relationship with this person? Is he pressuring me? Is having sex for me, or for someone else?

Although everyone has anxieties, if you don’t feel you are completely ready, wait. If the guy you are with really cares for you enough, he will understand that this is a big decision, and you don’t want to rush it. You do not want to give it up to a guy who is worried more about his stature with his friends then your feelings.

Tips

1. Choose a place where you feel safe and comfortable, your bedroom may be the best place.
2. Choose a secure time when roommates / parents / friends won't come barging in.
3. Gain some experience ahead of time. You want to have explored foreplay for quite awhile before you take the plunge. Having a good understanding of how your and his body works as well as having played together will take away much of the tension. Make sure that you feel 100% comfortable in the nude with the lights on, as having sex will be much more intimate then looking at each other.
4. Communication is the most important thing in a sexual relationship. Make sure to talk about doing it ahead of time to make sure that you are both thinking the same thing. Getting the topic out in the open allows you to become more comfortable with the topic.
5. Most women feel pain during intercourse the first few times because they aren’t used to having an object penetrating them. This can be reduced dramatically through fingering. Whether you finger yourself or your partner fingers you, stretching out your vaginal opening will definitely improve the experience.
6. Feel free to say stop when ever you want, whether you haven’t started, are starting, or are well under way. It may be because you are getting cold feet, or something about the situation feels wrong, the reason can be whatever you want, just make sure the person you are with will honor your wishes.
7. Excessive dryness of the vagina can be a problem, especially when nervous of the first time experience of intercourse. Although lubricant will not stop all the pain, it will definitely decrease it to some extent. K-Y Jelly is most often recommended, and it can be purchased in our online store.
8. There are a few positions that are really good for starting out, depending on your concerns. If you want to be in control, then we suggest having your partner lie on his back, and you can straddle him “cow girl style”. If you would rather be on the bottom, the missionary position is probably the best way to start.
9. If your partner has erection difficulties, or ejaculates prematurely - either of which often happens the first few times - be supportive. This can be one of the most embarrassing things that can happen to a young man, and if not dealt with properly, can result in ongoing problems. If erection problems do happen, try to stimulate him a little, and take some time before you try to put it in again.
10. The most important thing you need to know is to practice safe sex by using protection. Whether it be to protect you from pregnancy, or to prevent contracting STDs, you want to protect yourself to the fullest extent. Until you have been with your partner to get checked for STDs, and you are on other birth control, there is no excuse for not using protection. Just because there is no excuse not to use them doesn’t mean that guys will do everything they can to get away from them, and be prepared to hear everything from it makes me go limp, to it takes away from the pleasure, to they were sold out. You can buy condoms at most pharmacies, or order them online from our online store.

Remember, this experience should be an extremely special and intimate time for both partners. Good luck, and remember, the best sex happens with people you care greatly about.

Foreplay

Foreplay is a fundamental part of the whole lovemaking experience. Most men and women experienced in sex will agree that the best sexual encounters should include long and sensual foreplay. A big part of the fun on any trip is the journey to get there – do yourself a favor and don’t miss out on it. A more attentive form of foreplay will bring increased pleasure to both partners, and make any sexual experience more satisfying.

Both partners need a little extra spice to get fully aroused and achieve maximum pleasure. The man may need to prolong foreplay to get an erection and the women will usually need the same to become properly lubricated. Unless you are both just wanting a ‘quickie’, there is no such thing as spending too much time on foreplay. The trick is to start intercourse when both partners are fully aroused and having a hard time (pun intended) controlling their desires from foreplay.

Foreplay includes a range of activities such as undressing, kissing, petting and oral sex; but you can add your own thoughts to the list. Sensitive foreplay is so important to good sex because it will help both partners enjoy sexual intercourse more, and it will especially help women reach orgasm more often. Most woman need prolonged stimulation in order to reach complete arousal, and foreplay will provide them with the required encouragement.

There is no such thing as the definitive way to foreplay; it is not about pressing the ‘right buttons’ in any pre-determined order (unless after trying everything out you find that is what you both like). It is about understanding what makes your partner tick and supplying those things that make the experience exceptionally pleasurable. There are many ways to give your partner extreme pleasure, and it all begins in the brain. Compliment their appearance or other attributes, especially if they have a low confidence level; show them that you care about them and what they enjoy.

Creating the right environment for sexual intercourse is all about paying attention to the details, which is especially important at mature stages in the relationship. For example, make sure the room is warm, the lighting subdued and that the appropriate music is playing. Once the mood is right, take the time to undress each other slowly, because the act of removing your partner's clothes can be an important part of successful foreplay. Many find that undressing increases the eroticism - stimulating and intensifying the feeling.

During foreplay, go slow; begin by kissing and caressing. A kiss is usually the first physical expression of love and desire, but it is also often forgotten during sexual intercourse. During intercourse, kiss the different parts of your partner’s body, and don’t be restricted solely to the mouth. Many women complain that their partner doesn't kiss long enough and rushes the movement directly to the genital area. Don't be shy to experiment on every part of the body (for example, many women enjoy particular kissing and nibbling attention to the neck and shoulders) - and remember to prolong the foreplay with more kissing and caressing.

Another reason foreplay is important is for the learning experience. Foreplay is the perfect time to spend time understanding what your partner likes because without that, you will never understand what they really need to be fully stimulated. Don't be shy; ask for feedback and also give your own. Both partners gain from good communication during foreplay and lovemaking. If words fail you, either SHOW or GUIDE your partner in the direction you want, and encourage them to do the same.

Remember that only by communication can we understand what is required to improve - and that practice makes perfect!

Anal Intercourse

There are many ways to enjoy the anus erotically. Some people enjoy the sensation of a finger inserted into their anal opening and gently rotated. Others may find the insertion of a sex toy or penis very arousing and stimulating. This section contains all the essential guidelines for enjoying anal intercourse.

Getting Started

Some people are not very open to experimentation with this body part, as they are scared that it will cause great amounts of pain, or the whole thought of it is grosses them out. In any event, make sure to communicate with your partner to avoid bad reactions. If your partner refuses, don’t try to force them, it will be a horrible experience for them (and ultimately for you) if they are not comfortable with the idea.

If you are trying to convince your partner to explore this world, using something as large as a penis is definitely not the way to get started. You should start by getting them comfortable being touched in the area, then move up to using a finger or two, and then, when ready, finally moving up to intercourse. Please refer to the anal fingering to please women, or prostate stimulation to please men sections to learn more about anal play, plus using anal sex toys and analingus. Until your partner is ready to receive, their anxieties will cause their anal sphincter to tighten, and trying to push through will be extremely painful, so be patient!

Cleanliness is essential with virtually all forms of this type of play. A bath or a shower is a great primer, and can be the start of the festivities. Once your penis or sex toy has been inside the rectum, don't put them inside anywhere else until you have washed them. Carelessness in this regard can cause a very serious infection. Make sure to use copious amounts of a good lubricant, and start as slowly as possible the first few times.

The Largest Misconceptions of Anal Intercourse

Most people believe that anal intercourse hurts and that it is always an uncomfortable experience. This is quite simply false. As with any form of intercourse, the anus, like the vagina, must become used to the activity. Any woman who remembers her first time having sex probably recalls a painful experience. In fact, the first couple of times were probably painful and not that enjoyable. Did they stop having sex? In almost all cases, they didn’t. Anal intercourse falls under the same guidelines for both genders; it takes practice to get accustomed to the activity. Pain is usually a sign that something is being performed incorrectly, not that the act is wrong. In most cases pain is due to a few reasons: the receiver is too tense and tightening, the giver is pushing too hard, there isn’t enough lubricant, or that the penis or toy is still too big to put in (based on current experience levels). Using fingers and smaller toys is the best way to get used to the feeling, and it is advised that you increase size a little at a time. Once you have become comfortable with the idea and concepts you will probably find it very pleasurable.

The 5 Major Guidelines

1. Always use a lubricant. Unlike the vagina, the small amount of mucus a rectum produces is completely insufficient for anal intercourse. Therefore anal penetration should always be accompanied with an ample supply of lubricant. Water-based lubricants are latex-compatible and highly recommended.

2. Stop immediately if your partner asks you to stop. If your partner is too tense to experiment, all forms of anal penetration will cause a great deal of pain. We are not saying to stop trying completely, just don’t push yourself onto your partner, as this will only result in a bad experience for them, and make them less willing to try again.

3. Take it slow. When experimenting with anal sex for the first few times, go slow. There is no rush and if you take your time you will probably both enjoy the experience. There should not be a great deal of forcing required. If lubricated properly, an object should slide in somewhat easily. We recommend using your fingers ahead of time to loosen them up first for the first few times.

4. Sufficient desire alone does not guarantee pleasurable anal sex. Read the other four points.

5. Always communicate with your partner. As with any sexual activity, communication is essential. Talk about what you want to do, discuss beforehand your desires, tell your partner what you like and don't like while engaging in anal intercourse. Basically, be open about your preferences and feelings, and, be receptive to theirs.

Understanding the Anus and the Rectum

A minority of men and women respond with orgasms to anal sex without direct genital stimulation. Women probably do so through pelvic muscle contractions - and a small minority through the sheer excitement of being penetrated anally. For men, an orgasm may be experienced because of pressure applied to the prostate gland. They are no doubt responding to indirect stimulation of the penile bulb. Orgasms from anal stimulation are most likely to occur when the participants become thoroughly absorbed in their sensations and fantasies.

The main function of the rectum is to act as a passageway for feces, but feces are not normally stored in the rectum except just prior to a bowel movement. Small amounts may remain in the rectum. This is one of the reasons that it is recommended to use condoms during anal intercourse.

The rectum is not straight - see the sexual anatomy diagrams. After the short anal canal that connects the anal opening to the rectum, the rectum tilts toward the front of the body, sometimes as much as 90 degrees. Then, after a few more inches, it swoops towards the front of the body again. A person can learn about the shape of his or her rectum by gently inserting a soft object, trying different angles and body positions and concentrating on how it feels. Make sure the object has a flared base so that if you lose your grip, it won't slip into the rectum and become temporarily irretrievable.

If you insert a finger about one half-inch into your anus and press your fingertip against the side, you can clearly feel the two sphincter muscles. There is less than a quarter-inch between them. The external sphincter is controlled by the central nervous system (voluntary), which means you can tense and relax this sphincter whenever you want. The internal sphincter is quite different. This muscle is controlled by the autonomic nervous system (involuntary). The internal sphincter reflects and responds to fear and anxiety. It may cause the anus to tense up automatically even if the person is trying to relax.

There is the risk of sphincter tone (tightness) loss over time due to repeated dilation for insertive intercourse. Stool incontinence (poor control) can occur when anal sphincter tone decreases; this problem has to be surgically corrected if it becomes chronic. This is another very good reason to take things slowly and to never force anal intercourse! Everyone's body has different levels of ability to adapt; if anal intercourse remains painful (or even very uncomfortable) then it is probably best avoided - remember, there are still many other ways to stimulate and enjoy the anal area without full intercourse.

Though it is always wise to practice the safest sex possible, this is especially true with anal intercourse. The lining of the rectum is very thin, and can rip if there is too much stress put on it. By wearing condoms, you can greatly reduce your and your partner’s chances of transmitting most STDs.

All Sex Positions

The Grand-daddy of all complete lists - if you can't find it here it either doesn't exist, or you should be in the circus! Jokes aside, if you know of one we don't have, make sure to send it in so that we can put it on the to-do list, if it isn't there already!

Ah, so many positions and so little time to try them all! Remember that there is always tomorrow... and make sure to add your feedback!

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• 68 - Hers Oral Heaven - focus 100% on her while she simply relaxes - she'll thank you for it! 69 less 68... she owes you one! :)

• 68 - His It's her turn to focus 100% on him, while he just soaks up the sensations! 69 less 68... he owes you one! :)

• 69 Give-as-you-get oral pleasure! It can almost be just too much to take ... if so, be careful not to bite down TOO hard! :P

• 69 - Inverted More give-as-you-get pleasure, just flipped over so he's on top. Not much movement for her, so watch the periscope depth sailor!

• 69 - Kneeling Feel like adding a considerable lift to your lay (day)? Try this one - but for the sturdier of back and strong of arm only...

• 69 - Sideways Total comfort and dual oral - who could reasonably ask for more? Lick, suck, rest... lick, suck, rest... you get the idea!

• 69 - Sitting Feel like adding a little lift to your lay (day)? For those who like a challenge but aren't quite up to the Standing or Kneeling oral sex versions.

• 69 - Standing Feeling like adding a really BIG lift to your lay (day)? For the sturdiest of backs and strongest of arm only... steady there Big Boy!

• Acrobat Some balance required - but no high wire! Whether you need a safety net (or not) depends on how high you fly!

• Amazon Go wild... the receiver might need help sustaining the exploration, but will love the trip. No leeches either - bonus!

• Amazon - Kneeling Exploring the wild can tire out even the fiercest explorer; it's a jungle out there! Anything helps, so we thought we'd create a simplified version of our original version of Amazon.

• Amazon - Kneeling Reverse A perfect hold for sexy beasts that don't need to keep an eye on their prey. Besides, who'd want to escape this grip anyway!?

• Amazon - Reverse A return trip to the wild side of life... only via a different route! A good job for you that you have a trusty lookout up there.

• Arch Look, here it is... for those givers with no directional sense and who need a little encouragement, a can't miss position!

• Arm Chair Not quite as comfortable as the name implies, a rocking good time none-the-less! Now where did he leave the darn remote...?

• Asian Cowgirl 'Giddy-up'... equestrians will be at a definite advantage here! She'll have him taking the fences in no time.

• Asian Cowgirl - Reverse 'Giddy-up' in reverse... for those who like to see where they are cumming from, rather than where they are cumming to! :)

• Atten-hut This 5-fingered salute is one that is sure to make you stand to attention! You don't want to go off half-cocked... steady now!

• Ballerina Ok-ok ... we know that the slightly arthritic are raising their eyes (rather than their leg) toward heaven, but for those who can-can ... do-do!

• Basset Hound It's a dog's life, "Woof, woof". This one is for those who like to get down with their sex... way down! He's a "Lucky Dog" I say!!

• Ben Dover ...and Phil McCavity... groan!! Sex and stretching... a great warm-up if you want to try our Sexercise section!

• Bended Knee A perfect 'proposal' position... who needs a ring? Hey, it's Leap Year and she's on her knees too. Here's your big chance girls!

• Bent Spoon Even if you find the position tough - keep trying... abs of steel for those who persevere!

• Big Dipper You won't need a telescope to see the benefits of working your partner with these titillating triceps dips; they can also double as your spotter! If you don't have arms of steel now...

• Bodyguard The only extra protection you might need is a condom... with the Bodyguard to cover your back you are safe to relax!

• Book Ends How else would you expect to find a Missionary? No need to pray here - it looks like they have already been answered!

• Booster Seat This one doesn't come with seat belts or safety nets. Hopefully the receiver won't get e-jected until first being in-jected with pleasure!

• Bridge A Bridge Too Far? Not for those flexible and strong enough to go out there and give it their all for their comrade.

• Brute Giddy-up... in reverse. For those who like to see where they are cumming from, rather than where they are cumming to! :)

• Bulldog A tip from the canine world... use those haunches for flexible positioning and maximum leverage!

• Bumper Cars For when you can't stand the sight of each other any more - but they are still a really good lay! Just kidding! :)

• Butler "You rang?... it's awfully dark out there ma'am, either that or this peephole needs a darn good dusting!

• Butterfly Beauty in its simplicity... flying isn't just for the birds - wing your way over the top with this one!

• Cinema Stroke Although its origins can be traced back to blowjobs at the movie theater, this versatile pose can be done while parked in a car or behind a counter - just don't get caught!

• Cowboy Saddle-up; you could be in for a heck of a ride. Just be a gent and remember to take the spurs off first - ouch!!

• Cowgirl 'Saddle-up' - you could be in for a heck of a ride too... she could even leave the spurs on if you really want!!

• Crab In the spirit of all things great and small, we wanted to name this after a basic crustacean. If you happen to get caught in its claws, you won't be disappointed.

• Cradle This one is so much fun you will want to take it from the Cradle to the... well, it sure would be a great way to go, wouldn't it?!

• Cross For all you missionaries out there, you'll enjoy this one - just don't get hung up on it. :) It's soooo comfortable & gives a great view too.

• Dancer You've turned up the heat - now turn up the volume, get down to the beat and get intimate with the Dancer - but mind the toes. Ouch!

• Deck Chair Take it easy in the Deck Chair and go for the G spot with deep penetration - something for both of you ;)

• Deep Impact Here's something for the girl who wants her man on his knees, giving all he's got - but no proposal.

• Deep Stick Deep stick - it is what it says on the can... Deep! Any size, any where. Enjoy that long intimate stroke - but go slow for best effect!

• Delight The Delight is delightfully intimate, gentle as the Butterfly, stings like a bee, but sweet as honey.

• Doggy Style Everybody loves their Doggy - woof woof. ("Off the furniture, boy"!). You would have to be barking mad not to try this one...

• Doggy Style - Standing This one will knock you off your feet if you don't hold on tight. All that thrusting gives a great quad workout. Phew!

• Downstroke Getting to the bottom with Downstroke. Here's something for those who love a challenge. Especially when the reward is infinitely worth the effort.

• Drill Drill to thrill? Yes please :) Hold on with your vice like grip for deep penetration and sustained pleasure.

• Drive-Thru Here's a Drive-Thru with a difference ;) Be respectful and don't forget to place your order before you chow down.

• Ear Muffs Ever heard of the three wise monkeys? Here it is, 'See all, hear all and say nothing'. Just enjoy ... the occasional "Mmmmmmm" will suffice :) 3 wise what?

• Eve's Ecstasy Eve's Ecstasy is all about control, stimulation and access. While the performer lays back and chows down.

• Ex Sex For those for whom the journey is more important than the destination... "Now I know I left her here somewhere!"

• F*ck Face Ok - the name might not win any awards for subtlety, but it is what it says on the label - and it sure takes some licking!

• Face Off How's that for a way to settle your differences? Except in this battle, both of you end up winning!

• Feedbag You can get as dirty as you like, so go ahead; wrap a pair of legs around your muzzle and chow down. That's some tasty feed you’ve got there!

• Final Furlong They're at the gate, the bell sounds … and they're off! This is one ride you can't run out of steam on, at least not until you've both crossed the finish line!

• Fire Hydrant Females aren't supposed to lift their legs to... *groan*. Jokes aside, trust us, she'll love every minute of doing it one-legged, doggy style!

• Folded Deck Chair OK here's a Deck Chair that needs a little more effort from the receiver, & offers more control to the giver, but pleasures you both.

• Forbidden Fruit A forbidden fruit recommended more than five times a day to keep the doctor away. This is a diet to die for!

• Frog Leap Even if your frog is no prince - he can still service your lily pad from behind, before you over cook those legs.

• Fusion This variation on the Armchair is not for relaxing, in fact it is so exciting it might just Fuse you both together.

• Game's On Wow.... Game On! Bring it on - it's not intimate but it sure makes for good viewing while dining out.

• Golden Gate If you can bridge the gap, there will be pleasures waiting for the two of you on either end; truly a thrill-seekers 69!

• Head Rest Laying on your side head-to-toe means you can 'get hit' by all kinds of intimate, sexy oral fun. Deee-licious...

• Head Rush Just hanging around; no strings attached either! There's just one question - will the blood be rushing to the head or to the...?

• Intersextion Most accidents happen at the intersextion, so make sure you get in to the right lane, unless you want to get rear-ended!!

• Jack Hammer A tool that really rattles your teeth and fills your cavities. Hard work was never so much fun.

• Jellyfish You don't have to go for a swim to get a sting from this Jellyfish! Just enjoy the motion of the ocean.

• Jockey The Jockey is going nowhere fast ... he's here for the whole ride. Giddyup, go easy on the crop!

• Jockey - Inverted Saddle-sore from the regular Cowboy? Nope, just coming on down to take up a more intimate position. Aw, shucks...

• Jugghead If you find yourself inextricably placed in a vegetative state when overpowered by a pair of exceptionally large breasts, then you truly are a Ju’GG’head! But fear not, any size is great – it’s the thought that counts!

• Lap Dance All the excitement of the Club - but without others watching you. So many places you can try this without even leaving home.

• Lap Dance - Kneeling Looking into each other's eyes is nice and all, but so is the view from behind. The receiver won't mind either; you can touch them all over, and they won't expect what's coming next!

• Launch Pad This is mission control calling all sex-tronauts. Approach target; you will have lift-off in 3-2-1… take-off! Do not abort - this is one ride too good to miss.

• Leg Glider For all you high flyers, Gliding is a great way to reach for the sky, catapulting you into the great blue yonder. Strap yourselves in for take-off.

• Licking the Flag Pole You don't want her putting the flag to half-mast after you've finished... show her the colors and your pole might be next!

• Little Dipper The receiver definitely won't need to wear shoulder pads after pumping their arms (and his love muscle) in this exercise of seduction! That's quite a workout bench you've got there!

• Lotus This one is very intimate and sooo relaxing - breath deep and slow, just make sure you don't nod off.

• Lotus - Kneeling Like the regular Lotus, this one will have you praying enthusiastically for more! Meditate as you copulate.

• Lunges Who needs to go to the gym for a great workout? Have a look at our Sexercise section for more great ideas!

• Mastery Master this one for intimacy, tenderness ... and good old lust! Sweet moments were made for this, so relax and enjoy.

• Mastery - Kneeling It's a full frontal lap dance! Get the double the effect of Mastery with half the effort. You can just keep going and going and going...

• Mastery - Suspended When all the tenderness and intimacy of Mastery gets too much, break off for minute and let it all hang out.

• Mirror of Pleasure Reflect on how good this position looks and feels, and you might want to see it happen again and again...

• Missionary Actually nothing to do with Christian Missionaries as this one has been around since ancient times! But it never hurts to pray for more.

• Missionary - Inverted Again, not a Christian Missionary (upside-down or right-way up) - it's just Women's Lib in action, with the lady on top.

• Monkey Bar All those years of 'hanging around' are sure to pay off now - climb on and start swinging; crazy monkey noises are optional. Just don't lose your grip; you don't have a long enough tail to hang on with … do you?

• Oral Therapy A visit to the Shrink was surely never this good! A great example of the Little Head getting the very best treatment.

• Overpass No point being stuck going nowhere, when you can take a route that helps you cum and go!

• Pearly Gates If you are looking for the gates to heaven, you may have found them! Just make sure St. Peter isn't watching, unless of course you want him to...

• Peepshow Peek-a-boo! Come out of the shadows and into the light... do this one right and you'll be taking curtain-calls all night.

• Pie in the Sky Yummy!! Better than Momma's best baking... this one will have you salivating for more - careful with the hot gravy now!

• Pile Driver This one will really rock your socks. Not for the faint of heart or those looking for a 'tender moment'.

• Pile Driver - Reverse This lets you plunge it in deep, but execute carefully or you may find yourself driving your lover to the emergency room, instead of ecstasy!

• Pirate's Bounty You don't need to have a Treasure Chest to enjoy this one, but it doesn't hurt if you do. He'll just be grateful that you walked his plank.

• Piston With the added leverage from the chaise, you can really get your engine pumping. Just don't go overboard; you don't want to break your crankshaft.

• Plumber The Plumber's Crack takes on a whole new meaning! Shouldn't he be the one checking out her pipes for leaks?

• Poles Apart Included because anything might be possible if you believe in it hard & long enough (puns intended).

• Prison Guard Who would want to 'break-out' of this one? Guys - show some restraint here or you may end up in solitary!

• Pump The pump can be a great way to inflate your partner, but make sure you have good balance to avoid injuries!

• Rear Entry No - not where the domestic help enters... unless you give 'payment-in-kind'. Surprisingly intimate to say it could be anyone back there!

• Riding Astride Side saddle can seem so prim & proper, but if your ride bucks, all bets are off - both of you better hold on tight!

• Riding The North Face Get a secure hold because things can change fast up there... just mind out where you put those crampons.

• Riding the South Face For those cunnilingus connoisseurs who like to take the back country route. And if she's in the mood to go south on you while you're exploring her territory, bonus!

• Rodeo Ride your bull, or buck your bronco - either way you are in for a ride! The clown can't get in your way - he is underneath you :)

• Scarf Guaranteed to warm things up... the Scarf is great for all weathers. No need for hat and gloves though - unless you're outdoors.

• Scissors If you want to be on the cutting-edge of position variety give this one a try. It's different, but not too difficult - a snip really!

• Scissors - Seated It’s a leg lock gone wildly out of hand, but in a very good way. Can you tell who's winning? You know … it doesn't really matter does it!?

• Screw The name says it all. Gyrate those hips and be grateful that this is one thread you can't strip even if you get over-excited.

• See-Saw Don't try this one in the playground - unless you want to get arrested! A nice, smooth action where no-one gets the bumps...

• Side Rider Side Rider is like riding side-saddle; it looks much more comfortable than it is. No wonder she looks like she is getting ready to hop off the bus!

• Side to Side A good transitional position as you try out all the rest, or a great way to take a breather without breaking it off (the action that is!).

• Sitting Bull You might not just say 'How!', but 'Why?'. The how we can explain, the why is up to you ... maybe it's just because you can!

• Slow Dance You might think that from that angle he doesn't have a prayer of penetrating; but miracles CAN happen!

• Snake Charmer You'll find yourselves hypnotized with sexual ecstasy, that is if you play the right tune on their flute! If the serpent starts to dance on its own, you may have found yourself a new career!

• Sockets Any difficulty in plugging-in will be more than compensated by the buzz and tingle as the friction sets you both alight...

• Southern Exposure Sounds like a version of a drink that will leave you with a REAL Comfort-able 'hang-over'. I'll take mine shaken - not stirred!

• Spoons No - not the kind you eat your cereal with... This position is cozy and comfortable, and it makes a great way to start or finish a day!

• Spread Eagle Help her find those thermals and she can soar with the birds! Follow her lead, don't you get greedy and dive too soon...

• Stand and Carry Remember proper lift technique; straight back and bent legs. Weightlifters, don't get carried away - this isn't the official 'Snatch'.

• Super-Woman It's looks as though our horny heroine is in store for a super infusion, and she doesn't appear to need her super suit to fly either – her lover’s got a magic carpet to ride!

• Suplex - Her Wrestling purists will see that this isn't the exact form of the move, but in the grand scheme of things, our lovers are more than happy to be pinned to one another.

• Suplex - His A wrestling move that's sure to blow him over - and he won't tap out to be let back up, but he sure will beg for more!

• Sybian Ladies, who needs a do-it-yourself lovemaking machine when you've got the real thing? All you Cowgirl fans saddle up!

• Sybian - Reverse Equestrians don't ride their stallions like this, but ladies who like deep penetration do! Do leave your spurs off, your partner will appreciate it … unless they require a bit of discipline!

• Teaspoons A 'compact' form of spoons, teaspoons is an idyllic way to pass the time ... as the Brits would say, "Anyone for Tea?"

• Throat Swab "Open wide", but who says "Aaaaaagh" here? Real patient power... playing doctor, but with the patient GIVING the treatment!

• Turtle This should bring even the most shy out of their shell! Slow and steady... sometimes it's the turtle who catches the hare!

• Twisted Doggy Here's the Doggy most suited to anal sex - if that's your fancy. It's challenging but good fun trying.

• Twister A much more fun variation on the floor game. A great way to REALLY get to know all each other's important little places...

• Under the Cuckoo's Nest If you see your bird perched in this position, don't let it fly away without paying their roost a visit. They'll give you plenty to snack on if you burrow yourself in their nest.

• Under the Hood Calling amateur car mechanics everywhere... this is one time you won't mind losing your dipstick!

• Under the Sink In order to get a better look at the other partner’s plumbing, the giver's got to go down under. But if the pipes burst, they'll have no choice but to plunge-her!

• Usual If you are fortunate enough to be able to call this the Usual... all we can say is "You Lucky B*st*rd!"

• Victory Churchill's famous 'V' takes on a totally new meaning as SHE reaches for the sky! This is the ORIGINAL high-flying Victory Roll!!

• Viennese Oyster No-one said you have to swallow an oyster for it to be considered an aphrodisiac ... here's an alternative!

• Wheelbarrow With a little imagination (& if he is excited enough) this one could be re-titled the Three-Legged Wheelbarrow Race... :P

• Worm The skill is in the positioning. The pleasure is in the viewing. The added value is the pec workout.

• YMCA Our version will have something for both of you to enjoy. It'll be so fun to stay at the Y that the M-C-A will just have to wait...